ORGASM NEWS INSIDE THIS ISSUE:
Climax can be a place of euphoric pleasure or intense sadness. Individually
you can prep yourself to have that euphoric state that feeds your body needed
hormones. More importantly, it is a time for the mind and body to recharge and
to relieve itself of stress and pain.
Hello luvs!! Happy Holidays! Thank you so much for a great 2022! Your support made it possible for me to open my first brick and mortar. Shades Oasis has brought me so much joy. This year went by so fast in my opinion. Is that an age thing or a science thing? If it is any indication of the years to come, we need to shift how we are living and begin to live for our personal pleasures. If Covid taught us anything, it taught us that the definition of essential left A LOT of us on the front lines of a deadly war. It opened my eyes wider and has me making changes in the way that I move as a “nonessential.” I do not claim that. What I do is very essential and cannot be dismissed by an overseer who has never heard my voice.
I am
so glad that I am realizing this while I still have so much more life in me. I
recommit myself to my passion purpose. Like many things in life, we are kept
from knowledge that keeps us under a certain balance of self and control. In
the end, we have little control over ourselves. We are truly spoon fed what
“information” is “good” for us. Centuries have existed on spoon fed knowledge
that is controlled. While the lack of information is vast, some of it has
proven to be very harmful to us. By now you know that my work has been about
the business of sex education and sexual wellness. We have been given diseases
that are transmitted through touch. TOUCH, something that we need to live
happily. This of courses includes our most innate act of living. SEX. What the
government has failed to realize, is this has left us in a state of ignorance
that has allowed their manufactured diseases to exist for CENTRUIES.
Do you
know the number of lives we have lost to sex related diseases? Penis owners
have erections in utero. Toddlers with vaginas learn exceedingly early in their
life that the protruding nub under the flaps between their legs gives you
butterflies in the belly when touched. Sex is a natural act, and it has been
happening since before they started keeping records on sexual activity. Yet, we
spend more time on research to create medicines that “cure” or “slow down” the
progress of an infection then on modern day sex education that can prevent the
infection in the first place. There is
no money in healthy citizens. You have
got to protect yourself and be open about your status. We can make a change
that has never been done on earth. Eradicate
infectious disease transmitted through innately allowing the body pleasure.
For
instance, when Syphilis was placed in the bodies of Black men, did they know
that they would lose so many white and brown lives for so many years into the future
as well? Text will tell you that the origin of Syphilis was unknown. When
questioned about how it started it was said that it was because Black men were
so perverted, they had sex with sheep and contracted the disease. Ever hear
that?
Syphilis
has been around since 1948 and was widely spreading across the globe. History
states that the crew members of Christopher Columbus brought it back from a
voyage from France. But it was not until the Tuskegee experiment that research led
to a cure that was not given to those Black men of the Tuskegee study by the way.
Centuries
later, we are still dealing with this virus and truly little education is being
shared with us as individuals to protect ourselves from this and many other “diseases”
that science has created or those that are passed through the milk or meat of
animals. The answer is to scold and teach the harmfulness of having sex with
another. Celibacy was the message and just look at where that has gotten us.
If you
are playing Russian Roulette with your life every time you touch someone
sexually, wouldn’t you want to have some knowledge about protecting yourself
and finding pleasure in it? Wouldn’t you want to know the truth about what the
body goes through and how it can heal itself. How orgasm benefits the body in
so many ways that mentally we are uplifted, stabilized and balanced in a way
that feels “taboo” and it is not. It is so natural in every part of nature to
partner and to reproduce and flourish. The voices that govern have kept these
“secrets” so controlled that I see countless clients who have no idea that not
only is there pleasure in having sex, but the body produces hormones that heal
and soothe us.
The
truth is that sex is not just for procreating, there is more than one position
and there is more than one vaginal orgasm, ways to create harder erections and
medical benefits for completing the sexual response cycle known as climax. The
word orgasm remains a naughty word. Climax is more acceptable. Interesting
enough the cycle that science has created to explain the climax is the process
of going through four stages: excitement, plateau, orgasm, and resolution. They left out anticipation, which
creates arousal.
Arousal is necessary for pleasurable orgasms.
The body produces several hormones at climax
that benefit the body in ways that can replace the need for medicine. Like
lower blood pressure and cortisol, relieves stress which can reduce depression
and relieve pain, even headaches! They even behave as an antihistamine!
Serotonin, oxytocin, and dopamine flow through the brain and body and creates a
euphoric state that soothes us. Makes us feel connected to others and ourselves.
Yes, you can create these benefits on your own through masturbation but that
too, you need to overcome the generational conversation about how bad it is to
touch your genitals and to give yourself pleasure.
Twelve years I have devoted to the
understanding of the body’s ability to climax. Learning what happens to the
body, especially the vagina has been fascinating. Not because it can do things
that the penis born body cannot do, but because the knowledge has been kept
from us, on purpose, for generations. GENRATIONS. The truth is, there are nine
orgasms possible with stimulation of various areas of the genitals and twenty-three
erogenous zones on all humans that create that needed arousal.
Sex education has somehow found its way under
the umbrella of therapy. Maybe it is therapy. But it is also so much more. I
will continue to share with you all that I know about sex for pleasure and the
benefits of our hormones and the body’s response to them in the coming year. Continue
to follow me @shadeyontop and get truthful, tested and practice proven methods
of intimacy that we were born to experience. I am committed to helping as many
people as I can, realize the benefits of the “secret” of physical intimacy
between all bodies, all humans.
