Saturday, December 24, 2022

DECEMBER 2022 I S S U E 12 - Shade Over Everything

 

  ORGASM NEWS INSIDE THIS ISSUE:

Climax can be a place of euphoric pleasure or intense sadness. Individually you can prep yourself to have that euphoric state that feeds your body needed hormones. More importantly, it is a time for the mind and body to recharge and to relieve itself of stress and pain.

 Find out information about my events and workshops by finding Shades Oasis on Eventbrite and purchase a ticket from the site. Join me for a Brown Bag Lunch workshop on Wednesdays at noon on Zoom. Best $10 you will spend.  You do not have to be a member to get the link to the workshop.  https://www.eventbrite.com/d/oh--Columbus/shades-oasis/

 

Hello luvs!! Happy Holidays! Thank you so much for a great 2022! Your support made it possible for me to open my first brick and mortar. Shades Oasis has brought me so much joy. This year went by so fast in my opinion. Is that an age thing or a science thing? If it is any indication of the years to come, we need to shift how we are living and begin to live for our personal pleasures. If Covid taught us anything, it taught us that the definition of essential left A LOT of us on the front lines of a deadly war. It opened my eyes wider and has me making changes in the way that I move as a “nonessential.” I do not claim that. What I do is very essential and cannot be dismissed by an overseer who has never heard my voice.

 

I am so glad that I am realizing this while I still have so much more life in me. I recommit myself to my passion purpose. Like many things in life, we are kept from knowledge that keeps us under a certain balance of self and control. In the end, we have little control over ourselves. We are truly spoon fed what “information” is “good” for us. Centuries have existed on spoon fed knowledge that is controlled. While the lack of information is vast, some of it has proven to be very harmful to us. By now you know that my work has been about the business of sex education and sexual wellness. We have been given diseases that are transmitted through touch. TOUCH, something that we need to live happily. This of courses includes our most innate act of living. SEX. What the government has failed to realize, is this has left us in a state of ignorance that has allowed their manufactured diseases to exist for CENTRUIES.

 

Do you know the number of lives we have lost to sex related diseases? Penis owners have erections in utero. Toddlers with vaginas learn exceedingly early in their life that the protruding nub under the flaps between their legs gives you butterflies in the belly when touched. Sex is a natural act, and it has been happening since before they started keeping records on sexual activity. Yet, we spend more time on research to create medicines that “cure” or “slow down” the progress of an infection then on modern day sex education that can prevent the infection in the first place.  There is no money in healthy citizens.  You have got to protect yourself and be open about your status. We can make a change that has never been done on earth.  Eradicate infectious disease transmitted through innately allowing the body pleasure.

 

For instance, when Syphilis was placed in the bodies of Black men, did they know that they would lose so many white and brown lives for so many years into the future as well? Text will tell you that the origin of Syphilis was unknown. When questioned about how it started it was said that it was because Black men were so perverted, they had sex with sheep and contracted the disease. Ever hear that?

 

Syphilis has been around since 1948 and was widely spreading across the globe. History states that the crew members of Christopher Columbus brought it back from a voyage from France. But it was not until the Tuskegee experiment that research led to a cure that was not given to those Black men of the Tuskegee study by the way.

 

Centuries later, we are still dealing with this virus and truly little education is being shared with us as individuals to protect ourselves from this and many other “diseases” that science has created or those that are passed through the milk or meat of animals. The answer is to scold and teach the harmfulness of having sex with another. Celibacy was the message and just look at where that has gotten us.

 

If you are playing Russian Roulette with your life every time you touch someone sexually, wouldn’t you want to have some knowledge about protecting yourself and finding pleasure in it? Wouldn’t you want to know the truth about what the body goes through and how it can heal itself. How orgasm benefits the body in so many ways that mentally we are uplifted, stabilized and balanced in a way that feels “taboo” and it is not. It is so natural in every part of nature to partner and to reproduce and flourish. The voices that govern have kept these “secrets” so controlled that I see countless clients who have no idea that not only is there pleasure in having sex, but the body produces hormones that heal and soothe us.

 

The truth is that sex is not just for procreating, there is more than one position and there is more than one vaginal orgasm, ways to create harder erections and medical benefits for completing the sexual response cycle known as climax. The word orgasm remains a naughty word. Climax is more acceptable. Interesting enough the cycle that science has created to explain the climax is the process of going through four stages:  excitement, plateau, orgasm, and resolution. They left out anticipation, which creates arousal.

 

Arousal is necessary for pleasurable orgasms.


The body produces several hormones at climax that benefit the body in ways that can replace the need for medicine. Like lower blood pressure and cortisol, relieves stress which can reduce depression and relieve pain, even headaches! They even behave as an antihistamine! Serotonin, oxytocin, and dopamine flow through the brain and body and creates a euphoric state that soothes us. Makes us feel connected to others and ourselves. Yes, you can create these benefits on your own through masturbation but that too, you need to overcome the generational conversation about how bad it is to touch your genitals and to give yourself pleasure.

 

Twelve years I have devoted to the understanding of the body’s ability to climax. Learning what happens to the body, especially the vagina has been fascinating. Not because it can do things that the penis born body cannot do, but because the knowledge has been kept from us, on purpose, for generations. GENRATIONS. The truth is, there are nine orgasms possible with stimulation of various areas of the genitals and twenty-three erogenous zones on all humans that create that needed arousal.

 

Sex education has somehow found its way under the umbrella of therapy. Maybe it is therapy. But it is also so much more. I will continue to share with you all that I know about sex for pleasure and the benefits of our hormones and the body’s response to them in the coming year. Continue to follow me @shadeyontop and get truthful, tested and practice proven methods of intimacy that we were born to experience. I am committed to helping as many people as I can, realize the benefits of the “secret” of physical intimacy between all bodies, all humans.


Monday, August 1, 2022